by Lisa B on May 21, 2010
All day I had been planning a speech — a pep talk for my women’s ball team. We were 2-10 (that’s won 2 games, lost 10 games). I was going to share much of my revelation from yesterday’s post — we’re blessed to be able to even hold a bat and run the bases. Just being on the field is a blessing. We were playing the first place team (again!). Each time we’d played them, they’d run ruled us — some games more than others. I wanted to tell my team that my goal was to make them play 7 innings of ball!
Before the game, all I could get out was “I got new balls!”
We started off scoring first. Runners got on before me and I hit to right field. She missed the ball. I ran to 2nd — they threw home. I ran to 3rd. She overthrew 3rd so I ran home. That’s how crazy most of the game was. We played hard — every single one of us. When someone made an error, I made sure to yell as loud as I could to shake it off — good stop if it was a bad throw — try to find something positive about the situation. Of course I had one hit over my head. I turned towards the fence and let out a scream and I was over it.
I never asked what the score was and I was thankful I never heard it. I didn’t even know what inning it was. I just knew we had to get 3 outs. That’s what I concentrated on. I bobbled a fly ball and ended up pinning it against my stomach — out! Yes! I jumped up and down. Probably looked like an idiot
We got the last out (bases were loaded). We were walking to the dugout. I thought I’d heard the ump call ball game but I had to ask someone else. Was that ball game? Yes. Did we win? Yes. WUHOO! I whooped and hollered like I didn’t have any sense. But you know what? It was awesome. Simply awesome!
When we got into the car, Doodle asked me if we’d won the championship game. “No,” I replied, “it was better than the championship!”
Congratulations Luther’s Angels! We’re now 3 and 10 playing the #3 team in the championship game Tuesday night! {insert long, jumpy, happy dance here}
by Lisa B on May 20, 2010
If any of you know me in person, you know I’ve been playing a lot of softball lately. It seems to be winding down as our co-ed team is in tournament play and Tuesday night my ladies’ team finished the last regular season game.
The game Tuesday? Was frustrating and painful. We played the first place team. Please don’t get me wrong – I wasn’t frustrated with anything anyone else on my team did. I was totally frustrated with me. I hit to the first baseman twice and made it very easy for her to get outs. Then I hit to the pitcher but somehow managed to beat out the throw. I was mad. I was determined to get there. And when I did beat out the throw? Something I never would have been able to do before I started to workout? I was still mad because I hit it back to the pitcher. I couldn’t even give myself credit for running hard.
Wednesday morning came and I was still down. I really tweaked my quad muscle and it hurt to walk. Our co-ed team was supposed to play our next game in the tournament and I didn’t feel like going. Duck’s group (which I run sound for) was supposed to be playing at a church service. He wasn’t going to the game which was disappointing because we were missing a few other players too. We had decided the group could do without me so I could go to the game, but the way I hit Tuesday, I didn’t have any confidence to go play.
Then the wonderful news came. Ball game canceled. I could let my leg rest. Our players would be back for the make-up game Monday. This was great news.
So I got to go to the church service. And. Oh. My. Did God show up and give me a reality check. See, this was no regular church. At least, not like you and I know it. This church is part of an intermediate care facility for the mentally retarded – profound, severe or moderate mental retardation.
Many were escorted in wheelchairs. Many were just escorted. I fought back tears as I realized how amazingly blessed I am to have 2 fully functioning arms and 2 fully functioning legs (even with a pulled muscle!). How blessed I am to be able to hold a bat, grip a ball or run the bases. I realized softball is just a game and it’s supposed to be for fun.
The biggest realization came when Duck’s band played “He’s got the whole world in His hands” — because it was then that I realized how truly mentally handicapped I am. Here were many who were doing the hand motions and singing as best they can — and they were truly worshiping God. They weren’t worried about what anyone else thought. They weren’t worried about what anyone else was doing. They just sang and bounced and had a grand time! I should be like that when I worship God! A child-like faith.
I thank God He had us right where He wanted us to be last night.
Tonight my ladies’ team plays the first place team again as the first round of the tournament starts. My prayer is that I will realize how much I am blessed to even be out there on the field and win or lose, have fun playing the game.
by Lisa B on September 21, 2009
This post is going to be one of those great, random, short “what I’ve been up to instead of blogging” posts
Church: We seem to be settling into church. I setup a website for a little girl who we’re doing a fundraiser for — and you can help! I’m still finishing up a few things on the site, but I should have online donations available soon. We’re doing a fundraiser BBQ chicken dinner if you’re in the area. Check out the details at KaitlynAcosta.com and download a flyer — help us spread the word! So along with that site, I’ve also been trying to work on the church site — the pastor wants to setup his sermons in a podcast. I’m having to look up information about this again as I *used* to know about all that but have seem to forgotten. If any of you do this for your church, give me a shout. I’ll blog about it here too as I think others might benefit from the information.
She Seeks: I began setting up this site right before She Speaks, and I continue to work on it. We would love for you to help us promote the site to 20-something ladies. It’s a division of Proverbs 31 Ministries and really seems to be filling a void. Today’s post is on domestic abuse. I am more likely to lash out physically than Duck beating me — I think that’s a by-product of growing up with older brothers who would wrestle me. Still, I know many women who struggle with that. Pass it along even if it doesn’t apply to you!
She Reads: This is another division of Proverbs 31 Ministries. I helped setup this site. I wish I were more into reading as I think it would greatly help my writing, but I just can’t seem to make the time to read for pleasure. I’ve always gotta be learning something
There’s some great posts here about whether or not Christians should read stuff like the Harry Potter books. Doodle loves the movies but she’s not much of a reader either — so we haven’t read the books. There’s some great discussions going on in the comments though so check it out. They are going to have author interviews and you’ll be able to converse with the author in the comments. A neat idea! Mary E. DeMuth has posted today also sharing about domestic abuse and her latest book Daisy Chain.
Softball: The Sunday league ended yesterday. Kind of a bitter-sweet ending. We went undefeated this season (6-0) and won the championship game by 3 runs. The first game of the championship was quite a bit of drama as the other team was really trying to stretch the rules … ie. cheat. Nerve wracking is what it was. But we pulled it off! Ball Hogs rock! Duck’s still got some men’s games left and we have our co-ed team. Our co-ed team was undefeated as well until last Wednesday … but I’m supposed to be letting that go
I know we win and lose as a team, but all I concentrate on are my mistakes. I know. I’m hard on myself.
Vacation: Doodle is out on intersession already and we’re planning on taking her and a friend of hers to the Great Wolf Lodge in VA. I’ve heard great things about the place and it better be as awesome as they say, because it’s ex-pen-sive! Doodle’s already thanked us a million times for bringing her friend though so I think they’ll have a ball! Pray for Duck and I though as we’ll have 2x the talking to take in.
New member of the family: Congratulations to my niece who gave birth to a healthy bouncing baby boy. Everyone is doing well. That makes me a great-aunt. Wow. I must be getting old
I think that’s all for now. It may be another week before I catch back up with ya’ll. Just wanted you to know I’m still alive. But with working on 5 or 6 different sites this past week, well, mine’s fallen to the very end of the list as usual
Remember you don’t have to be a light to the whole world, just the ones God places on your path (to quote My Genius Better Half).